breezy thought

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the cold breezes feel great when they touch the face, the little darkness acts like a cherry on a cake. chilliness of the winds may give an expression of delight to some or for some its just cold. This kind of weather is short lived similarly sometimes our perceptions, it doesn’t means that we are fickle minded but more of a trait. Whenever we converse with people we make our mind-set about them But we don’t know whether the person is acting according to the situation or not. It becomes a part of our lifestyle to act according to the situation and that is explainable too. At the same time it is also true that the feelings created by speaker in the hearts of listener will be short lived and a great example for this is the so called motivational lectures. For those to whom it is delight it is short lived too. Coming back to the mindset, we see that the things which have different meanings to different people have temporary impacts. If we have summers its hot for everyone if its winter its cold for everyone and they are termed as “seasons”. But the weather described earlier has no significance. Similarly when we act according to the situation we are bound to get diplomatic , it will have many meanings hence no impact though our view will be explained. So no conclusions can be derived its just, I guess a routine process in our lives. Obviously our lives are filled with many emotions which bring many difficulties and diplomacy is a good weapon to handle them. But we can only explain ourselves not proof ourselves right.   

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